Hey friends,
This feels both liberating and a bit like a rebellious anthem—the unexpected parallels between Taylor Swift's "Slut!" and my own slutty self-discovery have been nothing short of a wild ride. Swift's anthem hits like a rebellious burst of confetti, and in my world, it's a seductive dance of self-love. It's like Swifty handed me the mic, and now I'm belting out my tantalizing saga, rewriting the rules with every note. So here's to welcoming the chaos, flipping off expectations, and revelling in the glorious mess that’s just begging for an encore.
At my ripe age, the fear of being labelled a 'slut' has lingered, even though I carry layers of privilege. But guess what? Embracing my own version of sexual liberty without conforming to societal norms feels like a personal revolution. And I promise you, I'm on this wild ride with no roadmap, no destination in sight—just the exhilarating freedom of choice.
Just like Taylor Swift amazed us with "Slut!" as a bonus track in the newly re-released 1989, there's a particular joy in reclaiming and owning a label that once held a stigma. Swift's song, despite its title, is a powerful message and a tender love song. It's not about conforming to expectations but finding freedom in self-expression.
It’s time to dominantly owning ourselves—whether we're burning down the fear of a label, riding the badass waves of our quirks, or just flat-out annihilating damn expectations. My slow dance with the dolphin craze of the '80s is a quirky footnote in my journey. While I don't have an ankle tattoo to prove it, it's the backdrop or soundtrack that was birthed in the slut shamey same era!
Still, the heart remains true—acknowledge who we are, even the weird parts, invite in liberation, and create our own queer mixtape.
Stay weird,
PS: Label me a slut or a smut DJ; either way, I've got songs for days to make you dance naked and celebrate your sexy body. Hit me (please?), and let these tunes set the mood!
PPS: True story—back in 2009, I took my teenage daughter and her best friend on a road trip to see Taylor Swift OPEN for Keith Urban in a hockey arena! Can anyone match that throwback? Share your epic concert adventures, please?
my new manifesto! Sluts unite!!